Be Bold And Heal The Wound Now!

Many of us had been molested one way or the other. I remembered mine at age of fourteen by a teacher. But mind you the experience can still be lingered in the memory till forty. So, we fail to face it and keep it as secret. Shame grows best in the dark; we’re only as sick as the secret we keep.

For me healing began when I could face it, forgive it, and deal with the shame I’d taken in a a result. Once I was able to do that, I could use it to help others.

In this article, I’ll share with you some lessons I learned that enabled me to close the door on my past, and move forward into the best days of my life. Here are four of them:

1. Refuse To Live Like A Victim!

When I decided to stop looking sympathy and start looking for solutions, I began to get well. Allah opens doors, but when He does we’ve got to walk through them and accept responsibility for our future.

2. Isolate The Problem.

Everybody is not the same. I had to learn not to let what one or two people me, infect every other relationship in my life. Once I was able to isolate the event, I could stop the enemy from using the past to rob me of the future.

3. Let “Perfect Love” Heal Your Scars.

I discovered that Allah’s love for me was the only love perfect enough to cast out all my fears. Fear of what? Fear of trusting others or myself! Fear of being known – and rejected! Only in the classroom of His (SWT) love could I be set free from these fears.

4. Be Patient With Allah (SWT).

Allah’s love and acceptance is the only prescription that can heal wound, because it heals mine. Jus be patient with the love and keep it. Don’t give it away unless you want to loose everlasting happiness and success. (Q3 : 200).

I promise you that if you constantly read the articles on these blog, two things will be yours:

1. You will learn how to forget your past;

2. You will become “fruitful” in every area of your life.

By for now.